Umukobwa yahishuye ukuntu yakunze se cyane kugeza amugushije mu mutego bakaryamana. Ibyakurikiyeho ni agahomamunwa

Umukobwa yahishuye ukuntu yakunze se cyane kugeza amugushije mu mutego bakaryamana. Ibyakurikiyeho ni agahomamunwa

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Dec 06,2022

Amazina yanjye ni Stella, mfite imyaka 25 y’amavuko, natangiye kumva nkunze cyane data ubwo nari mfite imyaka 21 niga muri kaminuza, ababyeyi bacu bashakanye bakiri bato cyane ku buryo twabyirutse utamenya ko ari bo bambyara kuko ni nkaho twanganaga mu gihagararo. Nakuze numva niyumvamo papa mu buryo budasanzwe.

Data ni munini, ateye neza, mbese afite ibigango bikurura abagore kandi arakize. Nagiye mukunda cyane nkamwiyegereza nk’umwana ku mubyeyi, ariko ubwo nari maze kuba umwangavu, rwa rukundo namukundaga rwavuyemo urudasanzwe.

Ubwo nari ndimo kurangiza kaminuza, nabaga mu nzu ya njyenyine y’ibyumba bitatu. Umunsi umwe papa yaje kunsura kuko yari yatembereye mu gace nabagamo, nibwo nagize intekerezo zisekeje zo kumva ndi kumwe nawe mu buriri, numva n’umutima wanjye wasubijwe ku bw’amarangamutima wari wuzuye.

Yampamagaye mbere y’isaha y’uko ahagera, na njye ntangira kwitegura uburyo ndagerageza kumusembura, ku bw’amahirwe nabonye ahageze, turabanza turahoberana nk’abari bakumburanye cyane, yicara mu ntebe muri salo, na njye mwica iruhande murambika umutwe ku rutugu ariko tuganira.

Ubwo ibiganiro byari bigezemo hagati, nibwo natangiye kugenda nkora mu gituza cya data, anganiriza ariko nanjye mukorakora, natangiye atumva ibyo ndimo gukora, kugeza ubwo ibiganza byanjye byageze mu gace mukoraho akaryoherwa.

Yansunikanye imbaraga nyinshi, mubaza niba ari we ubikoze abishaka, ntangira kurira cyane, agira impuhwe za kibyeyi atangira kunyegera ampoza, ansaba imbabazi ko akoresheje imbaraga nyinshi ansunika bitari bikwiye.

Ibyo yavugaga byose nta na kimwe numvaga, amaso yanjye ntabwo yahagaze kureba mu maso ye, nta kindi cyari kindimo uretse urukundo rugurumana nari mufitiye Cyane, yaramfashe arampagurutsa mufata ku ntugu, nanjye nihutira kumugwa mu gituza nsa nk’umuhobera, nawe yageze aho amera nk’ufashwe n’amashanyarazi, ambaza asakuza agira ati “Stella, wasaze, kubera iki wagize iyi myitwarire idasanzwe?

Na njye musubiza n’akarimi gasigirije k’urukundo ngira nti “Reka nkubwire Papa, ndabizi neza ko bidasanzwe, ariko nagupfiriye, ndagukunda papa, nta banga naragukunze birenze urugero, kandi nta nubwo nahagarika kugutekereza. Ntabwo nabonaga uburyo wanyegera kubera mama, nta bushake bwinshi nabaga mfite bwo kubikora, ariko ubwo wampamagaraga umbwira ko unsuye, nafashe umwanzuro wo kubikwereka mu bikorwa,…”.

Nyuma y’ibyo nari maze kumubwira, yafashe telefoni ye agiye kugenda, natangiye kurira cyane, amarira yanjye amubera ikigusha kugeza aho mbonye ko acitse intege, yaricaye mukorakora ku mavi, noneho arambwira ngo ninsubiremo ibyo namubwiraga, naramubwiye musezeranya ko ibyo turimo bizaba ibanga ry’agadasohoka ndetse ko na mama atazigera abimenya.

Ibyo twavugaga byose, akaboko kanjye kageragezaga gufungura imashini y’itantalo yari yambaye, ibyakurikiyeho nageze ku gits1na cye ndagitamira, nagerageje ku….…kuko nari nzi neza ko mama atajya abimukorera, mbona acitse intege, nagerageje gukomeza gu… kugeza ubwo nabonye ko atabasha kwifata. Nahise mukuramo imyenda yose mwicaraho.

Nakoranye na we imibo..., ibintu ntari narigeze nkora mu myaka yanjye, nawe yashyize umunwa we ku mabere yanjye, ayonka, ku buryo nanjye namuhaye ibyishimo atari yarigeze abona mu buzima bwe,….

Nyuma y’ibyo byose twakoze, yambwiye ko ndimo umugore udasanzwe, na we atigeze abona mu buzima bwe, ansaba ko mama atazigera amenya na rimwe iby’uwo mukino twakinnye. Umukunzi wanjye Michael, yatangiye kubona ko nta kimwitaho, atangiye kutanyishimira. Papa yanshyize mu isi idasanzwe, anyitaho ku buryo budasanzwe, akangenera impano, angurira imodoka, nyuma yo kurangiza kaminuza angurira inzu yanjye bwite,…

Papa yanteguriye urugendo mu buryo bw’ibanga, twamaze icyumweru tubana mu cyumba kimwe muri hoteli, icyo cyumweru cyambereye ikitazibagirana mu buzima bwanjye. Mu mezi abiri tugarutse iwacu, nibwo natangiye kumva ndwaye, nkifatwa nakekaga ko ari malaria, kugeza ubwo nagiye mu ivuriro, bansuzumye basanga ndatwite, ikintu cyambabaje cyane mu buzima, kuba nari ntwite inda natewe na data.

Ubwo papa yansuraga, yamenye iyo nkuru ambwira ko ngombwa kwita kuri uwo mwana, nagerageje gushakisha uburyo nava mu gihugu, kuko data ambwira kwita kuri uyu mwana kugeza avutse, mu gihe njye nifuzaga ko inda yavamo, ubu inda imaze kugira amezi atandatu, ndi mu rugamba rwo guhisha ibanga, ndumva ntishimiye umwana ntwite, ntabwo ari ibintu bisanzwe gusambana na data, byose ni umutwaro kuri njye. NKORE IKI?

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